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Romancing Your Soul

December 2008

Being Grateful


Giving thanks is about more than just a feast at the Holidays.  It's about focusing on the gifts in one's life, rather than the hardships, and finding joy in those around you.

In his new book, Happy at Last: The Thinking Person's Guide to Finding Joy, Richard O'Connor offers a modified version of an exercise called "three good things."

Before bed each night, take a moment to clear your head. Focus on three good things that happened during the day, no matter how insubstantial.

Examine your feelings about these things: Do you feel proud, excited, joyful, thankful?  Do they make you smile?  What other changes do the thoughts elicit?

 

Let yourself drift off to sleep as you continue to "savor, explore, and visualize" being grateful.

 

 

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Do Unto Others

The African Yoruba proverb, "One going to take a pointed stick to pinch a baby bird should first try it on himself to feel how it hurts," is one cultural variation of The Golden Rule - the fundamental moral principle espoused by world religions.

Have you ever thought how happy we would be, should you and I choose to shift our focus from making lists of things other people must change for our convenience and happiness to one of genuinely treating other people as we want to be treated - regardless how they treat us in return.

For example, on a morning walk we smile and say hello to people we pass. Some people will return our smile and some will smile and say hello. Others ignore us.  And, a true asshole may bark, "What are you looking at, Pollyanna?" If we allow ourselves to be offended by people who do not return our friendly gesture, then we will become unhappy, angry or judgmental.  Anticipating a friendly response is our personal-importance expecting a reward for being kind. However, if we smile and say hello, simply to smile and say hello, then we have taken the lead in treating other people as we want to be treated.

When our focus shifts to being compassionate then we change. When we change, the world changes.  

 

Dog and CatWorth Sharing - author unknown

Her eyes met mine as she walked down the corridor peering apprehensively into the kennels.  I felt her need instantly and knew I had to help her.  I wagged my tail, not too exuberantly, so she wouldn't be afraid.

As she stopped at my kennel I blocked her view from a little accident I had in the back of my cage.  I didn't want her to know that I hadn't been walked today.  Sometimes the shelter keepers get too busy and I didn't want her to think poorly of them.

As she read my kennel card I hoped that she wouldn't feel sad about my past.  I only have the future to look forward to and want to make a difference in someone's life. She got down on her knees and made little kissy sounds at me.  I shoved my shoulder and side of my head up against the bars to comfort her. Gentle fingertips caressed my neck; she was desperate for companionship.

A tear fell down her cheek and I raised my paw to assure her that all would be well.  Soon my kennel door opened and her smile was so bright that I instantly jumped into her arms.  I would promise to keep her safe.  I would promise to always be by her side. I would promise to do everything I could to see that radiant smile and sparkle in her eyes.  I was so fortunate that she came down my corridor.  So many more are out there who haven't walked the corridors.  So many more to be saved.  At least I could save one. I rescued a human today.

Should you want to be rescued, too.

 

 

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