Romancing Your Soul
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Live Each Day as You Want to be Remembered

Romance Your Soul

March 15, 2009

 

 

Elsa and Irving

Special Yoga Meditation Session
Sunday, March 22


"A fabulous way to spend the afternoon! I felt recharged and fully alive in the moment to enjoy and feel joy." - Randi

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Fix It for Free

Have an ailing iPod, a temperamental TV or persnickety phone?  Before replacing it or paying for professional repair, check out FixYa at www.fixya.com, where volunteer techies provide free fix-it advice for common breakdown of gadgets, electronics and other products.

Light BulbLights Out
Hundreds of thousands of people across the globe have already signed up to flip the switch for Earth Hour 2009.  Last year's event was the largest voluntary power-down ever: more than 50 million people in 35 countries turned off their lights for 60 minutes.

The campaign started in Sydney in 2007.  That year the city's carbon consumption dropped by more than 10 percent during Earth Hour.  If Sydney maintained that level of energy reduction year-round, it would be the equivalent of taking almost 50,000 cars off the road.

To pledge your participation, sign up at www.earthhour.org - and on March 28, 2009, go dark between 8:30 and 9:30 p.m.

 

How do you want to be remembered?
I was in my mid-twenties when a very special dream helped me answer this question.  Seated at the back of a church I noticed the pews were filled with somber people.  Many were looking down.  Some held tissues neatly on their lap, others gently wiped their eyes.
 
Soon my attention was drawn to a man at the front who was approaching from the left.  He paused, briefly resting his hand on a closed white casket. 
 
He climbed onto the riser and laid a bible on the pulpit.  After a few seconds he looked up, but not toward family members seated in the first few rows or to other people who had come to say goodbye.  He looked directly at me. 
 
The instant our eyes met I was torn awake. This was my funeral.  It was my body sealed in the coffin.
 
An overwhelming feeling of loneliness remained long after the dream faded into the recesses of my consciousness. The people at that funeral were not simply sad.  They were miserable as if mourning a life that had meant absolutely nothing.
 
That thought broke my heart. I could not let that happen.  I wanted to be remembered fondly.  I did not want people to be miserable.  I wanted them to celebrate a life well lived.
 
I realized that if I wanted people to remember me fondly when I was dead then they would have to do so while I was still alive. But, how would I know who was going to be around when I died?  If I could not know who those particular people were, then wouldn't I have to leave a positive impression on each person I met? 
 
What began as a frightful nightmare ended in peaceful awareness.  If I want to make a positive impression on the people who share my life then I had to live each day as I want to be remembered. In the end I am the one who benefits most because I am living in a way that makes me proud to remember me, while I am very much alive.